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21/11 Game : Never Apart



Alice and Zach just got married, have been together since secondary school. They are known for their undying solid trusting love and even claimed that only death will do them apart. These two are “inseparable” now since they got hitched.

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26/03 Conditioned : Cause & Effort



A part of an email exchange with a long-time internet-pal...

Matt: I'm feeeling really down these days... the cancellation of my business trip to New York is one of the reasons, and I also had said “goodbye” to Ashley...

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04/03 Abso-nothing-lutely : Spiritual Relationship



An article by Zeph...
How do you know your relationship is REALLY spiritual?
When you are ready to let each other go, for the greater good. When your partner might feel that he or she has outgrown the spiritual value of the relationship and wishes to move on, go forth, be it renouncing the lay life to join the Sangha, or just to leave the relationship in the wish to choose another means to upgrade himself or herself spiritually.

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24/08 Love : What Do You Love?



Fyn: What do you love? Her long eye lashes? Her sharp nose? Her high cheekbones? Her soft lips? Or the idea of her? For what she appears to be depends on what you are fond.
Zeph: I love everything about her or she would not be her. And I learn to love all her changes too.
Zlyrica: If love can grow with changes and change with changes, and better with changes, perhaps it will last!

13/04 Building : Bridge



To have a fulfilling relationship, be it kinship, spiritual friendship or love, you need two to build two halves of a bridge towards each other, across the chasm which both need to cross. A relationship does not begin with you alone, you need someone else. Yes, it takes two hands to clap. Without each party contibuting, co-linking, one cannot complete the bridge fast enough for the relationship to be meaningful.

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06/04 Heal : Love Bandage



I will let you decide whether to go or not to go. But this does not mean I do not care enough or that you are not important. On the contrary, I do care and love you. And I know your importance in my life. However, I do not wish our love to be like a plaster that sticks so firmly onto the skin. So tightly that when you need to peel it off, it hurts like hell... We are all like 'wounds' in this world (since we are unenlightened) which is why we feel hurt and suffer.

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